People have their own problems in life, but why would you want to put up with someone else's problems. When you begin a relationship it is like an unwritten document stating that you are willingly there to help your significant other when they need it. Some people do not know how to work out their differences in other ways than getting all upset and yelling at one another. There are many different ways around all of that: you can talk it out, mentally and/or physically change the way you act towards on another, or last, get help from a relationship counselor. Usually most people choose to work their problems out by talking to one another.
Spending time together, but also doing your own thing is very important. Everyone wants to be around that one person they love, but it can become a problem that you may not notice. What if you do not like how that person is acting, or what they are doing. You cannot tell them to stop because it upsets them. They are their own person and probably acted that way in the beginning, but you are not noticing it because you are around one another all the time. Eventually everything will work out because you will grow to know what bothers your significant other, and what to do and not to do. Doing you own thing is always nice because if you just stop doing everything you did before it may make you become depressed. Who does not want to have fun once in a while, and hang out with the guys or girls?
I am in a wonderful relationship with someone who I think is the greatest person in the world. Someone I can talk to, share things with I would not share with anyone else, and someone to help me in my time of need. However, we do have our differences and sometimes it is hard for me to "keep my cool." I like to work things out and speak my mind without someone telling me that what I have to say is wrong. Sometimes it is hard because he might not like what I am saying to him and he gets angry and upset. Each time we have an argument and talk things over we are learning from our mistakes, and building our relationship up to something strong than it was before.
In a relationship there are many bumps along the way, and differences to overcome or work through. If you hold your head up, think positively, you can make it through anything.
