Dealing With Nasty Attitudes and Jealous People

Have you ever felt that no-matter what you did to avoid someone who had something on you, you still found yourself face to face with their ugly scowl even if it took years for them to catch up with you?
Some people with nasty attitudes are just out to get you. These people are out to shrink your stature, belittle your character, intimidate your confidence and plow down your popularity. As the old saying goes, " What comes around goes around."



People that spend their time backstabbing and conniving mischief are just cowards themselves. Some secretly want what you got and if they can't have it themselves they try to find every feasible way to see you lose yours. If everyone likes you, these lava licking devils know it and often try to manipulate you and make you a laughing scoff. At all cost keep your integrity, they may be out to get you, but you don't have to let them win. Don't let them steal your candy and leave you with the wrapper. Forgiveness is essential, but there is a fine line between forgiveness and standing up for yourself. The worst thing you can do is return equal evil for evil, this will only prove the idiot right. Let them eat a little of their own medicine. They will suffer consequences when others see you have kept your dignity. The best thing for you and the worst thing for them is if you keep smiling. If you meet up with them, a gradual grin will send them spinning chasing their tail.


Sometimes after the long tussle they will come back and want to be your friend and join your band wagon. " Don't be rude, but firm and stubborn." Play a little hard to get, yet be still friendly at the same time." Sometimes this magically makes them fall on their knees for forgiveness." " Tell them you forgive them, but make them earn back your trust." Often the ones that seem to cause you the most trouble really admire you, but are consumed with jealousy. Others are intimidated by you and think they can build their own kingdom by tearing down yours. "Don't ever tear yourself down in front of the snobby, cocky, mouthy, or quiet conniving person or you are waving the white flag of surrender." "Tell yourself that I am not going to melt down and be the asphalt that paves a street for pathetic attitudes to run over."


As the Good Book says, " Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall." They've got their thing coming! Ultimately, you can actually become friends ( it's happened many times), so stand your ground and keep your cool.